Sunday, December 31, 2017

The End and the Beginning

There is stll much work to be done as we start the new year.
The saw, that is Dad's fault as he did not teach me that a hacksaw is NOT for wood!!!
One can see that our shop was not all that special!
There is much to forget and much to be thankful for as we say good-bye to 2017.
  • Of course it is a blessing to be alive as we enter 2018.  As all of us know way too many who have not had the honor of living this long.
  • Terry wants to say good-bye for at least 2 reasons.  Last winter she continued to deal with her broken back and this fall and winter she has dealt with a broken foot.  2018 will be better.
  • I want to say good-bye to my pulled hamstring.
  • There was work done in St. Paul, thanks
  • There are new windows in the St. Paul kitchen, great
  • We used our camper for several days, fun
  • We finished our Christmas card and gifts by Thanksgiving, unbelievable
  • At 9:00 AM today St. Paul temp will be -14 and Naples temp will be 54, thanks.  We had better not complain when we see that this coming week each day high is to be in the 60s
  • Our trips, to MN in May and to FL in October were safe and fun-great
  • In December Cynthia gave us the news that there is another grandchild on the way-exciting
  • In May we received a nice refund on our taxes.  Maybe we should change our withholding but still the refund is so much better than a bill!
  • Last March my tennis team finished undefeated in matches, so much fun.  This fall my tennis team had to scratch for any kind of positive, not so good but still fun.
  • During the summer I was able to finish wood projects for the kids for Christmas, I still love my wood shop.
  • During October and November I worked on a calendar for my siblings.  I ended up having 40 pictures and 115 dates of birthdates, deaths, anniversaries etc.  I think it was a big hit with everyone and it was fun to do.  Below is the cover of it.

  • Of course each year I am thankful for my siblings.  Having experienced the deaths of Ronald and Janet as a young adult my siblings become more precious each year as we are able to grow into old age.  Dave has dealt with major health problems and is doing fine, Helen just makes life interesting for herself and friends and the picture of Joan/Ron with their Christmas card looks like they are getting younger and more in love with each passing year.  I admit these are my observations and are NOT their words.  BUT I think my thoughts are pretty accurate!
  • One of my highlights for the year has been letters and cards from grandkids.  They are so super special and I have to admit almost on a daily bases I look for something in the mail.  I said "look" as of course they do not come everyday.  Jude will often ask some questions and then he will write, "report back".  How cute is that???  I do write a note to two of them each week and that has been fun.
  • One of the highlights of the year was being part of Terry's son, Brian, marrying Tammy.  Brian hit the nail on the head with his choice of partners, Tammy is a special person and fun to have in the family.
  • As I write I notice that most of the thoughts are on the positive side but Terry would tell you that in many ways 2017 has been a struggle and I agree.   But of course we always need to look on the bright side of things and be thankful for what we are and what we have. 
As Terry and I take down the 2017 calendar tomorrow and put up the 2018 we will think, expect, feel and work towards a blessed and fun new year.  To anybody who happens to read this I wish the same for you.

Friday, December 29, 2017

2018 is so near

No picture tonight as today has been not a picture day.  It has been one of those days that a person would just as soon forget.  Actually my life is fine and I have no reason to be down but down I am.  I had a Dr. appt at noon to have my left ham looked at.  I had not played tennis for over 2 weeks but I was on the court this morning for about an hour AND it went OK.  My left ham was a bit sore after so I iced it and all was fine.  In my Dr. appt he examined the leg and said for sure there was a pull of the hamstring.  He said that there is no way to know for sure what it is without an MRI.  SO there is an MRI scheduled for next Tuesday and then a follow up with the Dr. on the 8th.  For sure there will be NO tennis until the Dr. looks at the MRI.  So in my gloom and doom I say is tennis really that important?  Well of course I know it is not but then I also know that it is an outlet for so many things and it really is important.  So instead of sucking it up and being happy the rest of the day I was down and out.  Took a 2 hour nap and did I need it?  Probably not.  Well I can feel sorry for myself or I can move on in a big boy way.  I have not decided!!!
We are enjoying nice weather here but I can not say the same for MN.  It looks like New Years Eve the wind chill may be well below zero.  I, of course, remember those days, the paper route and all and will remember to enjoy warm weather here.
John, Aaron, Cynthia and families spent the last couple of days together and I hope they had a fun time.  I have been getting some notes from the Adkins kids and they are so precious and special.  Jude writes and then says, "please report back".  How special is that?
Enough as it is 11:30 PM and I should be in bed.
I am hoping that all family and friends have a great new year.

Sunday, December 24, 2017

Christmas Eve Day

I woke with a start
the bed creaked as I rolled over
a slight ray of light filtered into my room
AND it was cold

What day is it
yes, Christmas Eve
a day long waited for
a day so special

As I lie in bed
my breathe curled up
up to the frosty nails
on the unfinished ceiling

Quiet, oh so quiet
there is no stirring
not from the girls' room
or from downstairs

I turn to my clock
luminated in the twilight
the hands point to
twelve and to seven

Quickly I rise
put on my jeans
and tip toe down
the sometimes noisy stairs

As I open the door
the kitchen is outlined
in a pale light from
the south window

There on top
of the kitchen cupboards
are packages all
in neat rows, Mom did that

To my right my parents
bedroom door is closed
no sound there
no stirring of life

Slowly I tip toe
across the kitchen floor
plant my foot on the old crooked stool
and step up to look

This I know
is forbidden territory
for days I have dreamed
of picking up that large package

I reach for it now
cradle it in my arms
and step down
onto the linoleum floor

I turn it over
I shake it up and down
there is no sound
no hint of a hidden treasure

Then I hear the door behind
me open with a squeak
I turn to see Mom in her tattered robe
a smile across her weathered face

Then she utters those words I knew were coming
words that I do not want to hear
"Not now Carmen"
really I know I must wait until tonight

"Yes Mom" I quietly mutter
then to change the subject
"can we have pancakes with venison
for breakfast?"

The pancakes and venison are eaten
but the taste is hollow
that package, that big package
is it what I really want?

The day drags on and on
cows are milked and snow is shoveled
then finally,
after the lutefisk, lefsa and boiled potatoes

The packages come down
we sit in the living room
Dad with a grin and
Mom with a big smile

I open IT in a flash
there on my lap
is my new shiny clock radio
there is a Santa!!!

The radio wears out from use
from the Lone Ranger
to the Minnesota Twins
it entertains me for years and follow me to college

But wait, today
it is a new day and a new year and things are so different
the clock radio is long gone but memories remain
AND Christ is coming today, hallelujah!

Benedict, our Christmas baby but of course not a baby any longer

Benedict is 6 today.  He is our only grandchild with a December birthday and it is on Christmas Eve day at that.  Happy birthday Ben and keep being the great guy that you are.!  I am thinking as I look at this school picture that you love school.  Love, Grandpa Lee and Terry

Saturday, December 23, 2017

A birth is coming

I could choose to remember many Christmas times from the past but I choose to remember Mom on this day.  The picture is of a seat saver that she made and gave to cousin Ruth.  Ruth moved to a home where she is very limited in what she could bring so her daughter sent this to me.  It is a treasure for sure.  I put the $5 bill so one can see the size.  Mom loved Christmas and with so little means to make  the season special she did it with love and work.  From the church Christmas program to the lefsa to so much more she made the season each year one to remember forever.  If Mom were living today she would be 106.
Terry and I will have a low key Christmas.  We will take in church services tomorrow and then come home to a few presents and a meal of cream potatoes and ham.  On Christmas day we will enjoy the leftover cream potatoes and a standing rib roast.  No lutifisk for us.  In spite of what my wonderful Terry would say there were years when the lutifisk was very good and then times when it was not so great!  Dave still makes Grandma Lee's sweet soup BUT for me I will say "no thank you"!  It is beyond my reasoning to know how one can like something with raises, prunes etc in!!!
This is only important to me but I have been off the tennis court since last Wednesday.  I ice, soak and wrap my left hamstring muscle more than once a day and it is getting much better.  I MAY get on the court next Friday.  As I said it is only important to me but for me it is REALLY important!
I remain in the mind set that Christmas is all about cold weather and snow so here as I enjoy 80 degree temps Christmas is real but only to a point!
IF there are people who read this (why) I wish you a very merry Christmas and a truly blessed 2018.  May the new year bring you blessings and a renewed faith that shows to all whom you meet.

Sunday, December 17, 2017

A remembering day

Christmas at the Saunders farm in 1974 with John, Aaron, Travis and Lisa
as one can see Christmas in ND didn't always mean snow
Today is a day for remembering.  If anyone happens to be reading this a warning that it may be a rerun of last year.  So IF you have other things to do perhaps now is a good time to shut down the computer and get them done.  BUT it is my annual sit back, relax with FP and Baileys and smile.  This is not a journey of "I wish" or " "I want to go back" or "if only".  No it is a journey of remembering the joy that God has granted me during Christmas.  I should say that I am not even having Baileys but rather Irish Cream from Kirkland (Costco).  Long ago the need for name brands has passed and now as I near 71 I am more down to earth, more practical and more "I am who I am and you can take it or leave it"!!!  I need to remind myself that the tree, lutafisk, lefsa, presents, games etc were so important during Christmas but Mom and Dad kept us grounded in the real meaning of Christmas with church and the church Christmas program.  And we always read the Christmas story from the Bible at some time during the season.  So with that said I am ready to, for the time being, forget my lame leg, forget any family stress, forget things that are undone but rather relax, smile and enjoy WHAT WAS:

  • The space above the kitchen cupboards was the width of the cupboards and from top to bottom  maybe 12-15 inches.  The cupboards were above the counter top in the SW corner of the kitchen and they were in an L shape with one on the south and one on the west.  The presents that Mom wrapped were on top of the cupboards and they were OFF limits to us.  BUT it was fair game to shake them and rattle them when Mom and Dad were not home.  I don't remember anything ever breaking!
  • Dad had been gone for some time dealing with health issues in SD.  He came home a few days before Christmas and gave Mom a present to be opened right away.  There were reflectors that were put on each Christmas tree light.  Mom thought they were beautiful.
  • Dad said he had a problem.  He said there had been frozen rain that had made the trunk of the car impossible to get open.  We kids did not remember any frozen rain but for sure as we tried to open the truck it was stuck!  On Christmas Eve the truck magicially unfroze and inside was a shiny new sled.  The wood was bright, the runners were sleek and it was super.  It was opened on Christmas Eve but we had to wait until the next day to try it out on the hill by the creek near the outhouse.  Dave, with his earlaps down, Carmen with his earlaps up and Joan spent hours going down the huge hill (maybe it was 20 feet down!)
  • The Saturday before Christmas and the Saturday before that and the Saturday before that was Mom's time.  We would pile into the car and drive to Bergen Church for Christmas program practice.  It seemed that each practice lasted hours but as I think back it may have only be an hour and a half or so.  I do remember that even tho I was as good as any of the kids I NEVER got to be Joseph!  I am guessing Mom thought she should not give her kids the best parts or it could be I was not as good as I thought!!!  I find it so funny as I hated those practices but I think because of them I now love to sing Christmas music like Silent Night or Oh Little Town of Bethlehem or Hark the Harold Angels Sing and of course the list goes on and on.  Just last Wednesday our neighbor had a party and the best part was the organ player and singing along.  I actually think that the best part of the Christmas program was the fact that Mom got to play the piano, be in charge and she just loved it and did a great job.
  • We sat down to the table to enjoy our Christmas Eve meal.  I did not even have to look or ask to know what we were having.  It was boiled potatoes (not the most popular item), lefsa, lutefisk and maybe a veggie, I don't know about that.  If we were lucky this years fish was flaky and good.  If we were not so lucky the fish may be  not so flaky and a bit slimmy!  Melted butter went over the fish and we indulged in our Norweign meal for the year.  I would spread my lefsa and put butter on it but Dad would roll his up and put a dab of butter on the tip before each bit.  In later years I realized that I copied much of what Dad did without thinking about it but in lefsa I never did!
  • I really do not know for sure but I THINK when Grandma and Grandpa were still on the farm we would open presents at home and then drive to their place for dinner.  They moved to town about 1955 or so and it was after that we ate at home.  Dave or Joan or Helen may know for sure.  BUT when we ate at their place it was always Grandpa eating one last helping before dishes had to be done and presents were opened.  After that it was play games or if it was nice enough out we would go outside and play hide and seek.
  • I needed a clock in my bedroom and I wanted a radio so one Christmas I got a clock radio.  I think I was in 10th grade.  That allowed me to know what time it was and to listen to Harry Cary broadcast the St. Louis Cardinals or later listen to the Minnesota Twins.  The Twins came on the radio after they moved to the Twin Cities in 1961.
  • There was this long package under the tree and for the life of me I could not figure out what it was.  A rifle?  I wanted one but Dad had said nothing about getting me one.  Finally on Christmas Eve I opened up a package and there was a long pole with two places to put your feet.  A pogo stick and I had no idea what it was.  BUT it turned out to be one of my most fun gifts ever.  By the end of summer I could hop on my pogo and go all the way to the barn, turn around and get back to the house without falling off.  Look Mom what I can do!
  • There was a large rectangular box for Dave and a kind of square one for me.  My present was Lincoln Logs and Dave's was an erector set.  Those 2 gifts gave us 100's of hours of fun.  I think Dave was able to keep his and prehaps it is now with a grandson.  My logs burned up in the fire.
  • I can't remember Christmas without remembering my electric blanket.  I am sure it was Mom's idea as she knew my bedroom in the winter would often get down to single digits and getting undressed and under the covers was an act of heroism.  My electric blanket was so so nice.  On those winter nights when I arrived home around midnight from a basketball game I could hurry upstairs and climb under a nice warm blanket that Mom had turned on for me.  It was the best.  How many kids can remember getting into a warm bed and before turning off the lights blowing breathe rings in the cold air and watching them float up toward the frost covered nails in the ceiling!
  • I am sure that there were some Christmas times when presents were few and small but somehow I fail to remember those times.  It seemed to me that even in the worst of times in terms of money Dad and Mom managed to find some presents big or small.
  • Of course I remember shopping in Lidgerwood for Christmas presents.  After the Christmas movie Dad would give us perhaps $2. and I would cruise the isles of Dalman's 5 and dime to pick out small presents for siblings and Mom and Dad.  
  • One year I went all out, it was when I was in HS.  I had worked for cousin Russel and neighbor Rollof with hay so I had some money of my own.  I had given $10 to brother Ronald to buy me a new baseball glove so I had depleted my funds somewhat. But I was determined to get something for Mom that was nice.  I purchased a picture of Jesus in the woods.  The picture was maybe 36X20 and Mom was so so pleased.  I think she even gave me a thank-you kiss.  
So the memories go on and on and for the most part they make me smile and feel blessed.  I am not sure that Dave, Joan and Helen would remember the same or even remember the events in the same way but at this stage in life who really cares.  I do not have a lot of memories of Ronald and Janet around Christmas as Ronald was 11 years older and Janet 9.  I should mention that one Christmas Janet was home from college.  She worked in a drug store while going to school and her boss had given her a box of candy for Christmas.  She saved it to open while at home.  Some how her boss had managed to put $20 inside the candy box and when she opened it she as so so surprised and happy.     Good times for sure.  
I could also mention that in 1984 my family went to Hemet CA to spend Christmas with Grandma and Grandpa Saunders.  I remember the kids saying that it did not seem like Christmas as we went swimming outdoors and the temp as in the high 70s.  What can I say as I sit here and write the weather forecast says it should be 83 today!!!  
The FP is gone but the memories remain forever.  MERRY CHISTMAS TO ALL


Saturday, December 16, 2017

Marching towards Christmas and then a NEW YEAR

This is not our red truck but it is kind of like it.  The front window cranks out for AC.
Of course we had a grain box with tilt box to unload grain
Here it is Saturday and I have not written about our last tennis match of the fall.  One could guess it did not go as I wanted!  We lost court 3 big time.  I played on court 2 with Rusty.  I started out playing, in the first 4 games, about as poorly as I played all fall.  THEN things picked up and started to go our way BUT as I ran to my left for a backhand shot I had to stop quickly to avoid the fence AND that darn left leg gave in again.  I managed to play 3 more games, which we won 2, but then we lost a game which meant we lost the 1st set.  I knew I could not play but rather just stand and hit the ball if it happened to come to me so I said that is it.  It is pretty lame to have to forfeit and I am talking lame in terms of the match not about lame play on my part!!!  The good news was my court 1 came through in great fashion and won their match in a match tie breaker.  SO it is a month of non-league and then the winter starts.  I have put myself on the "unable to perform" mode for 2 weeks or more.
Maybe we can become the first ever team to come from the cellar in the fall to the mountain top in the winter.  Isn't that what the twins did this year?  I am more realistic than that so my sights are on a minimum of 10 points and maybe as good as 14/15 points.  We play 10 team matches with 3 matches each time so a perfect season would be 30 points.  I am finding that there is a HUGE difference in tennis at the 2.5 level and 3.0 level.  For sure it is always fun to play against guys somewhat better than you so you can improve so we will see.  For now it is IB twice a day, ice 4 times a day and rest.  I may have to check out more books from the library.  I have found that one of the most enjoyable aspects of retirement is having time to read.
Our neighbor John left for Canada yesterday and will spend his first Christmas without his wife Diane with his 3 children and grandchildren.  Last year at this time Diane was in the last stages of brain cancer so the memories may linger big time.  He will return January 8th.  I drove him to the airport and I asked him if he was ready for the cold.  He said each time he returns in the winter he asks himself WHY?  He keeps busy here with outdoor sports all the time.  He had a Christmas party at his house Wednesday where about 25 people gathered.  He hired a guy to play the organ for 2 hours so it was fun to sing Christmas songs.
I think Terry's foot is slowly healing.  It is a slow process.  She sees the Dr. Monday again.  Perhaps she will need to have the boot on for another week or two or three.  I called a Dr. to see if I could get in for my leg and here there are so many old people who need Drs that he is scheduled for 2 weeks out.  I made an appt for the 29th but am hoping that by that time the leg is kind of good.  I also made an appt at Costco to get my hearing checked and they are also 2 weeks out.  I have had my aids for 6 years and may be due for new hearing aids.  Not so sure about this old age stuff with hearing aids, pills, glasses and all the things that go with that.  Oh, I forgot to say it is good to be on the sunny side of the earth for sure.
I put together a 2018 calendar for my siblings and I have it hanging near the computer.  I see in January I can think about Quinn on the 5th, Janet/John the 10, Grandma Lee on the 23rd and Mike on the 25th.  I like that.
Enough for now as the last sip of FP was cold.
Christmas of 1973 at Aunt Ann and Uncle Otto's home in Lidgerwood
Aaron, John, Travis and Lisa Saunders

Wednesday, December 13, 2017

Early but more time to enjoy

OK so it is not Christmas yet, I know BUT for Terry and I would guess many many family and friends who may be of the more mature type 😉it is not a time to spring a big surprise present on our spouse.  After all how many of us can say "I want -------- for Christmas".  I am not saying we have everything but really if our health is OK and family is OK presents are perhaps far down on our list of wants/needs.  Well I have to admit I would like the car that the wine festival is auctioning off here in February.  The festival takes in, annually, about 12-14 million dollars for charities.  Rolls Royce has made a one of a kind purple Phaeton car to be auctioned off.  That would be nice!!!  I am guessing someone will bid north of $1,000,000 for it.  I asked Terry about it and she said NO.  Of course I am joking but it is amazing.  Back to our Christmas.  Terry asked if I would give her a canvas picture of some flowers to hang over our bed.  I ordered it and then she opened them when her son and his wife were here so they could see them.  Each canvas print is 10X14 and the pictures are from Naples, Minnesota, Alaska to name a few.  They turned out great and certainly make our bedroom bright.
We have our last fall tennis match today and it is at home.  At this point it makes little difference if we win some matches or not as our win/lost record is way beyond repair but I still am hoping to salvage one or two courts.  I will play court two today as My left ham is still sore from 2 weeks ago.  I wrap it each day and it is better but I have little strength to push off on it.  I think it needs rest.  Regardless of how we do it will be fun and then there is a month off league before winter starts.  After I have breakfast I need to get the drinks and snacks ready for the afternoon.  Our weather should be prefect.  It should be in the high 60s when we play at 1:30.  Certainly better than in the mid 80s.
I have a tiny bit of FP left so will enjoy that as I prepare my eggs, ham and sweet potatoes for breakfast.

Sunday, December 10, 2017

Our first this year

This is what I saw this morning as I looked out the window!  Well not really, this is what I saw out of the airplane in Alaska as the bush pilot dipped his wing when we flew from Haines to Glacier Bay National Park.  It is an example of melting glaciers in Alaska.  BUT we do have our first COLD spell here in Naples this fall/winter.  The temp glared a cool 47 as I opened the door to get the paper.  I have no complaints as my smart phone (for a not so smart guy!) shows South Bend with 18, Jamestown with 31, St. Paul 24, Sandy with 19, Madison with 21 and we go up with Rapid City at 51 and Mesa at 60.  Again the smart phone shows that when I head out for 7:30 tennis tomorrow to play tennis it will be 47 again.  The forecast was for a low of 41 so perhaps we lucked out.
I hope all is well in places that our family is enjoying.  I say that because I think back to the 50s and 60s and as we all know it was a different world.  Aside from Dad's Farmers Union bus trips to New York and DC most family and news were pretty close to home, ND.  In the 50s for sure.  In the late 50s and early 60s, as I lay on the barn roof looking west and then looking up to the jet trails in the sky I had no idea our family would enjoy places like Naples, Mesa, Holiday Island, Sandy and of course travelers like John in the army and Helen in the Air Force there were FAR away places like Italy.  Well I could include John Lee who schooled for a year in Germany, Travis who spent a semester in Washington DC and Cynthia who spent half a year in Rome.



Great place to play "kind of the hill" after the snow plow goes past!!!
I am guessing Dad had the chains on the car!
Have NO idea what one would do if you met an oncoming car!







        By the way I was too lazy, and I did not want to wake Terry up, so I did not grind more coffee but instead went with what I had and my FP is not impressive this morning.  Don't get me wrong, it is certainly better than the church basement Luther League egg coffee but not up to my standards!

I find myself, more than in the past, thinking back on Christmas years and years ago.  My first thoughts are of Christmas on the farm with some of those tiny trees and the packages on top of the kitchen cupboards.  Then the mind goes back to Christmas when my children were growing up.  The late nights at work at the School for the Deaf where I had the key to the wood shop.  It was there that I made the oak night stands that the boys still have and there that I made the toolboxes that they may still have.  Then it jumps to St. Paul where I can still hear the screams of delight as each one unwrapped part of the new Apple computer and printer.  I am sure we overspent on that Christmas but for sure it was worth it.  I have no complaints as I know life changes but Christmas certainly is different now.  Terry and I have Christmas music on and some decorations up and it is fine but for sure not the same as having little kids in the house with their anticipation dripping from every word and move.  Don't think I am wishing for little kids in the house now!  Now Christmas is not so much about presents but about being with family and friends and taking in events.  I am not down playing the real reason for Christmas which of course is the wonderful birth of Christ, it is a given that Christmas is all about Jesus but we also know that it is more than that in our culture.  It is about lights, music, parties, friends, family, decorations and more.  For me it is also a time, perhaps more than other times, to remember back on people in our lives who are no longer with us.  People like Gail, Mom, Dad, Ronald, Janet, Mike and I know a host of other family and friends.  One of the ever lasting memories of Christmas is spending time with Grandma and Grandpa Lee in their farm home on Christmas.  For some reason I still can hear Grandpa's hardy laugh as us kids wanted to open presents and Grandpa would want one more helping of lutefisk and lefsa and then of course the dishes had to be done before the presents.  After that it was Dad, Halvor, Grandpa and ?? playing cards and the kids (Halvors and us) playing games before we fell asleep on G & G bed because the card game was not over.  It was usually after midnight that we were hustled into a COLD car for the drive home.  Grandpa's laugh still rings in my ears.  With his head thrown back I still can see Grandpa with joy written all over his face.

I will finish up with a note about life.  In the grade ahead of me in HS was Carl Blumhoff.  Carl and his sister lived with the Seiferts who had a mink farm south of Cayuga.  I knew nothing of his life in terms of why he was not with his parents.  Any way Carl and I played the sousaphone in band together.  He was WAY ahead of me in interest and skill!  Anyway, like so many many of my HS friends I knew nothing of Carl's life after HS.  On Facebook yesterday it was posted that Carl actually died in 2013 at the age of 68.  He had served in Viet Nam and was out of the army in 1971.  He had lived in Sioux Fall SD since 1982.   I had no idea.  Another of the class of 1964 who did not have the privilege of living to what we call old age.
My vanilla (meaning not so great) FP is gone and I end with an Advent wish.  May this Christmas Season be a blessed one for all.


Friday, December 8, 2017

It continues!

As I posted earlier, Happy 48th John.  Forty-eight years ago today was a happy and exciting day.
The agony of tennis continues one more week.  On Wednesday we met defeat on all 3 courts.  Did we learn from it?  I hope but am not sure.  We have our last fall match next week at home and then there will be a month off of league until the winter starts January 17th.  The question is "can we compete at the 3.0 level?"  I feel we can but that opinion is not based on looking at this falls results!  I can say that it really is more fun playing against better players than what we saw on the 2.5 level BUT of course it is fun to win some.  Like one teammate said Wednesday, "Carmen I doubt you will get another coach of the year award!"  I answered, "Your are right but I expect my -0- salary to double!
We have warm temps today, I think it is low 80s but by Sunday it is supposed to be highs in the 60s so change is coming for at least a short time.
That is all as I want to get back to my book.  As I often say this retirement is tough!

Thursday, December 7, 2017

Happy Birthday John

Hi, my name is John Allen Lee and I am 48 today.  Thanks for the call.
Love you John,  Dad and Terry

Tuesday, December 5, 2017

Looking good!

Those bison at Sullys Hill south of Devils Lake sure are interesting!
I am guessing this picture was taken in early summer of 1974.  Sullys Hill was a destination for us often as we would take a picnic lunch and spend time there.  We would always drive through the preserve and would, most of the time, see deer/elk/bison grazing.  After some high swings at the picnic area we would head home.
Things in Naples are same same kind of.  Terry still has her boot on the left foot but I think it is getting better, but too slow for sure. 
My tennis team has its second to last match tomorrow. I am going to play court #3 as I have a mild strain in my left leg.  Maybe we can finish up the fall with some wins.  It really is not a big thing as I can tell we are playing better and the winter will be a different story, I THINK!
The house is quiet as Brian and Tammy left last Friday early AM. 
We finally got to the library and brought home 5 books so it will be reading time for a while.  Our cards had expired so we had to get new ones. 
Our weather has been seasonally warm for some time.  Normal highs for this time of the year are 77/78 and tomorrow for our 2:00 PM tennis match it is supposed to be 83.  That 5/6 degrees makes a difference in stamina. 
I am not playing tennis today.  I asked Rusty to take my place and then I will go watch as the play this morning will have my 2 top pairings playing to see how they do.  That will determine who plays court #1 and #2 tomorrow.  Does it make a difference?  I do not think so but it is fun to try and make the best happen.
After Brian and Tammy left Terry and I went back to the Whole30 eating plan for a while.  It certainly does make a difference in how I feel.  Don't know if I want to live out the rest of my life eating mostly veggies, fruit and meat but then I look at carrying 20 pounds more or less around and think it may not be such a bad idea.  I find that I eat not because I am hungry but because I like the taste of food.  This plan is supposed to curb some desires so we will see.  Yesterday was kind of a difficult day but then I stepped on the scale this morning and thought it was not so bad!
It is a great feeling to have so much done for Christmas.  All the kids and grand kids presents are taken care of and the cards went out Saturday so now it is sit back and take in Advent and Christmas with the focus on the REAL REASON for the season. 
I just sipped the last of my FP.

Friday, December 1, 2017

And then there were NONE


In the fall of 1977 Gail and I moved into our new home at 2094 Niles Ave in St. Paul.  We put 26 storm windows up that fall.  At the age of 30 it was not a big deal to climb the 20 feet up the ladder with the storm in hand, that was for 10 windows.  As time went on the routine stayed pretty much the same.  Screens came off in the fall, windows were washed inside and out and the storm windows, after they were washed, went on.  Gail would work on the inside and I would be outside.  Year after year after year this went on.  Screens were repaired (most of the time!) and storms likewise were repaired and painted again and again.  Then in 2011 I decided that it was no longer fun to climb the ladder lugging storm windows up and attaching them to the house.  So new windows were put in on the top floor and it was such a blessing.  To make the story short the last four windows that I put storms on were in the kitchen and new windows were put in last week.  From 1977-2017 there have been 30 new windows put in.  NO MORE STORMS TO PUT ON, NO MORE SCREENS AND STORM TO REPAIR AND NO MORE STORMS AND SCREENS TO PAINT!!!
I rest my case, it is a good day.
On another note my tennis team took it on the chin again this week but tomorrow is another day.
I finished my project for my siblings, including John and Glorine.  I put together calendars with many many dates of births, deaths, anniversaries and more.  It took a lot of time but it turned out very well and it sounds like everyone is happy with them.  Now to print out Christmas cards and get them in the mail.  The envelopes are ready to stuff and put in the mail so it should not take too much time.
Terry's son Brian and his wife Tammy had a grand time here for the last few days.  I woke up at 6:15 this morning and the house was so quiet, they left early.  They will arrive home by Sunday.
Enough for now.

Thursday, November 30, 2017

ONE!!!

Leonidas (Leo!) is one today.  He is such a cute sweet little boy.  Happy birthday Leo and may your day be special.
Love, Grandpa Lee and Terry

Saturday, November 25, 2017

Some history

This is perhaps one of two pictures that I have with our barn in.  Some history of our barn.  Joan, Dave and I are standing to the SE of the barn.

  • There is no electrical pole by the barn which means this is before Dad wired the barn for lights
  • The SE part of the barn had a large pen with the water tank in it.  That is where Dave and I often let the water tank overflow and flood the pen!
  • It is clear that the picture was taken before I was able to wear real pants with a belt like Dad.
  • The far side of the barn, had the stanchion's for milking cows.  I don't think we ever milked more than 5 or 6 cows even though there was room for at least a dozen.
  • The north third of the barn was where we kept hay.  There was a door high on the north wall that we could open and throw loose hay or bails into the barn.  That was the place the cats would hide out.
  • The east side of the barn had three pens in addition to the one with the water tank.  I don't think they had cement floors.
  • Down the middle of the barn, from the hay room to the south, was a walk way.
  • There was a door on the SW corner where we would let the cows in for milking.  That was also the door Mom would put a dish towel to call us home for lunch.  I wonder if she wiped the dishes after hanging the towel out???
  • Later, when Dad wired the barn, the light pole was just north of where my head is in this picture.  That was an easy way to shimmy up to the roof.  On lazy sunny days I would shimmy up and lie on the west roof dreaming of what I would do when I grew up.
  • We would often play tag etc. on the beams in the barn.  One day I fell into a pen on my head and got the wind knocked out of me.  I thought I may die!
  • On days when I could get out of work I would take a rake and smooth the barn yard on the south end of the barn.  For the most part the cow pies were dry because in the summer the cows would spent time in the pasture so I did not have to worry about soft ones!!!  Then I would use a rubber ball as a baseball and throw it against the barn wall and I would be part of the Milwaukee Braves team.  I would usually be the shortstop or the pitcher and we would always win.  Sometimes Eddie Matthews would hit a homerun and often Spahn would strike out someone on the New York Yankees!
  • By the time I left home there were several small window panes broken and I do not remember them being fixed.  
  • On the west wall there were nails where we would hang the chain kickers that we would put on the cows so they would not move their feet and kick over the milk bucket.
  • We had more than one milk stool and there was no real place for them, just any place we put them down.  Most of them had one leg so you had to balance yourself as you milked.  
  • In the winter, before we had lights in the barn, it was almost magical as you hung the lantern on a nail after you entered the barn which was a bit warm from the body heat of the cows.  As one milked the cows ate hay and and cats lurked in the dark with their beady eyes waiting for a squirt of milk.  On my way out I would pour some milk in the cat dish and cats would appear out of the dark to get their fill.
  • Way towards the back of the picture you can see the shop where we parked the Ford tractor and spent time making toy guns etc.  That was also the place I would often keep a can with dirt and worms in for my fishing up at the lake.
Time to get to work as Brian and Tammy will arrive later today and there is a bit of work to do before they arrive.  

Thursday, November 23, 2017

More pain--more gain

Happy Thanksgiving to all.  A day to give thanks (of course we should do that everyday), a day to relax, a day to be with family and friends and a day to look forward to the coming Advent Season.
YESTERDAY---More gain, we played fairly well but more pain too.  Our third court fell 3-6 and 3-6.  Our second court won their first set, lost their second set in a tie breaker and lost the match in a tie breaker.  My teammate, Rich, and I lost the first set in a tie breaker, won the second set and lost the match in a tie breaker.  A fun time but with disappointing results.  Playing at the 3.0 level is certainly more fun and adds to ones game so we will take the matches in stride and move on to the next week.  We have 3 more fall matches left and then a 3 week break before winter season.  It will be a learning season for sure but on the far end we should all be playing a better game.  Here is hoping this body of mine holds up.  I have had NO injuries this fall but that darn back lets me know that all is not perfect.  As I lay in bed this morning ready to get up the muscles in my right shin kept tightening up which kind of pulled my toes towards my upper body.  Oh my to be even 50 again---no I am fine where I am.
A relaxing stay at home Thanksgiving for Terry and I.  Her son Brian and his wife Tammy are on their way here now and will arrive perhaps on Friday.  We will have our turkey/dressing etc. after they arrive.
As I type I see that the temp in Naples is 68.  For many many Thanksgiving Days the measure, weather wise, was whether it was freezing in the garage or not!  I am guessing it is doing that in St. Paul today.
I am not getting on with some of my winter projects yet.  It is not a matter of lazy or anything, just not into things at this time.
Actually I may start to print our Christmas cards today.  They are ready to go so only need to decide who they go to, get the labels and print out the cards.  It would be nice to get that done by the end of next week.  Maybe I should just cut this short and get to work.  My FP is history for the day and I am, at this moment, ready to do some work.
Again, to anyone who happens to read this have a very very happy Thanksgiving and may the coming Advent season be a blessing in surprising ways.

Tuesday, November 21, 2017

Progress---some

Kind of like the separator we had in our entryway on the farm for our milk.  You poured the milk in the top and cream would come out one and milk out the other.  I think ours looked better than this!
Terry and I are finishing our 16th day of our "change our eating ways".  I would say that so far, for me, it has been quite good.  First, I have cheated NONE!  For me that is amazing!  I have lost 11 pounds and can feel it for sure.  Also it SEEMS that I do not have the cravings to eat so much.  I am a habitual snacker and that has not been the case for the last 2 weeks.  BUT I do miss the cheese and the bread.  Sugar, not so much.  The craft beer---I like it but it has not been so difficult to live without it.  I went through a stage last week where I had NO energy but  that has turned around and I am back to my normal self.  I played tennis yesterday and today and was not really tired after 90 minutes.  We will see what the long term brings. All next week we will have visitors so the eating plan is out the window for that time and then we will get back on it for most of the month of December.  I would like to CUT OUT snacks and feel satisfied and then I would like to lose a minimum of 15 more pounds.  If I could do that I would be within 5-7 pounds of my HS weight.  We will see, maybe I am wanting and expecting too much.
No FP now as it is late afternoon.  I took a run to Target and the traffic was awful.  I did take advantage as I ordered Terry's Christmas present on line today and saved 55%.  I wanted to order it last week but last week there was 40% off so the wait was worth it.
We have a home tennis match tomorrow and I am hopeful of winning at least 1 and maybe 2 courts.  IF we are competitive I guess I should be happy for now BUT.....
Enough for now.

Saturday, November 18, 2017

Can't let November go past without a deer picture

Carmen, Dave, Ronald (Red), John and Dick
I am guessing 1962 or 63, not sure.  I am guessing it was before John's red pickup as the deer are on top of the car.  Ronald, John and Dick were three of the greatest young men ever.  I could add Dave too but he was a bit younger.  It doesn't look like Dave or I had the best clothes for deer hunting!!!  I am sure there was red someplace but really it looks like we are ready for school.  I think the station wagon was John's.  Dick was a good friend of Ronald and John.
Not much else to say today.  My weight, that had gone south for one day, was back on track yesterday and today.  No more weight loss for the last few days so will have to be content to stick to the eating plan for now and see if I feel better.  The loss of 10 pounds certainly helps but MORE is needed.  We will try to stick with it until next Saturday when Brian and Tammy arrive.  We will celebrate Thanksgiving perhaps on Sunday or Monday after.
I am feeling pretty good about Christmas coming.  Gifts for kids and some others are done, Christmas card is ready to print but not sure about grandkids.  As they get older it is more difficult to come up with something they need/want.  I try to be so careful as the gifts my kids received from grandparents sometimes bordered on???????.  We always appreciated the thought but......
The last drop of FP is cold so the end.

Thursday, November 16, 2017

The learning continues???


Mom's side, Sampson, side of the family.
We would meet in Glenwood MN once in the summer. On the way there we would read Burma Shave signs and count horses!
Janet, Joan, Dave and I are in the picture along with Mom and Dad
Many aunts and uncles in it too.
We had our 4th fall tennis match and once again it was a losing thing.  Not all bad as the team we played won the 3.0 division last winter so we expected them to be good and they were.  It was a fun time, as fun as losing can be, and I am hopeful that we learned some things too.
I stepped on the scale this morning and my first goal weight, which I had achieved the last 3 mornings, had gone south!  Tomorrow will be another day!
We are creeping up on Thanksgiving Day quickly.  After that I can go into stores again as looking at Christmas things in October and November is too much for me but after Thanksgiving it is OK.
Not much news today as I finished my FP and breakfast so I should be good to go for tennis at 7:30.  I have been struggling a bit as the "no sugar" effect on my body has not passed.  It is better but not good.  It seems one is supposed to rely on GOOD fat and not sugar so will see how it works long term.  Perhaps I can blame eating for losing our league matches!

Tuesday, November 14, 2017

November 14, 1971---SOME TIME AGO!!!

HAPPY 46 TRAVIS
Another day in 2017 and another Lee birthday.  Travis have a fun birthday and celebrate with friends.  Have an exciting and blessed coming year.  Love, Dad and Terry

Saturday, November 11, 2017

Another Wednesday, another match and another loss!

Audrey on the left and Faustina on the right

Faustina on the left and Audrey on the right
How about those girls in red!  The bottom picture was taken in 2008 and the top in 2016.
My tennis team did win one of three matches on Wednesday and there were no blow outs so that was a plus.  I and my teammate lost 3-6 and 4-6 on court 1, we won court 2 in a match tie breaker and one of the two sets on court 3 went to a tie breaker so really not so bad.  I played with the best player on the team but he is not used to playing doubles so it will be a work in progress.  He will be gone for the rest of the fall and in the remaining 5 matches I will mix up players as I have said in the past this is kind of spring training for the winter.  Winter, it will be a challenge too but I will try to get the best pairings together and try harder to win some matches.  All in all it has been, it is and it will be fun.
I am really trying hard to change my eating habits and lose weight.  Five days and some weight has come off but I have felt it on the court, a bit sluggish.  I quit after an hour yesterday as I just did not feel well.  It does not help either as our weather has been very warm.  It has been in the mid 80s when we play.
I finished Terry's calendar for 2018 and I think it turned out great.  It ended up being 102 pages, 51 pieces of paper, 39 pictures and a lot of work but it was worth it.  I ended up making double of everything so I have one too.  The pictures on the front of our 2018 calendars are below.  I had to do something so we could tell them apart.




It is hard to believe that we are less than 2 weeks from Thanksgiving.  Terry and I may just keep a low profile on Thanksgiving and then crank it up starting the Saturday after as Brian/Tammy arrive for a 5 day visit.  We may just save our turkey day for when they are here.  We did invite a couple and a guy over but they both had plans already.  Maybe a good reason for me to TRY and keep on my eating plan for a few extra days.
Enough for now.  My FP is still hot so I may just relax for a bit and read a book to start the day.  Nothing like relaxing after one gets out of bed!!!  Need I say that retirement is a full time job!!!





Wednesday, November 8, 2017

A project finished

A North Dakota photo perhaps taken around 1970 or so
From left to right Marvin Lee, farmer and son, Bob Mouw, John Mouw and Dad
I am sure the prong horns were loaded into John's trusty red Ford pickup for the trip home
I shot my one and only prong horn in the late 70s but was not on this trip
Last year I searched and searched for a 2017 calendar book for Terry but could not find what I liked so I made one.  She uses it so much I thought I would make one for 2018 and also do one for me.  I insert pictures of people on the week of their birthday/anniversary and then put in ages.  I purchased a 100 sheet pack of presentation paper so I could print on both sides.  At the end I had 4 sheets left to put in the back for notes.  I finished it yesterday and took it to Staples to have it cut to size (5X8) and then bound.  I will pick it up today.  Terry already has a Dr appt for 2018 so she needs it.  It was a fun but frustrating project.  With figuring out pictures, note pages and weeks I ended up wasting about 6 pages but in the end it turned out fine. Nice to have it finished.
Every once and a while I will go to LuLu publishing to see if any books have sold.  At this time, two and a half years after publishing, most of the time the revenue page shows -0-$ but this morning 3 e-books and 3 paper backs were sold!!!  That means a check for about $9 will be coming this month.  A little bit closer to my million dollar goal.  Wait a minute, that means I am only .0016% to my goal so I may have to wait a bit😕.  I guess I had better not go out and spend $$ based on future book income!  No Bentley for me yet!!!  I am thinking that I may need to start promoting it in a big way.  Here in Naples you often see someone standing on a corner waving a banner for a business.  Maybe I should go to Staples, get a 6X8 banner and stand on the corner.  "North Dakota Boy writes history book.  Pull over and get you HOT copy"  On second thought it is not so hot so I may just forget that and play more tennis.  Speaking of tennis we have our 3rd match today.  I will be playing court #1 with the best player on our team.  I was thinking maybe we should move down to court #3 to kind of make sure we win.  No no I would not do that but after losing 2 straight weeks in a match tie breaker maybe something different is in order.
Terry is still struggling with her broken bone in the left foot.  Yesterday we saw the Dr and he read the MRI report.  She is now in a boot and will see the Dr. in 2 weeks.  It is healing but way way too slowly. We hear of people battling cancer etc. so I guess we should be thankful and patient with a broken bone.  Brings thoughts back about my broken wrist and the two surgeries to repair and take out the metal plate.  Of course bones will heal and many other ailments are not that way.
We are having warm weather for this time of the year.  Today as I take the court the temp is supposed to be high 80s.  I guess the idea is to have plenty of water and not run like a crazy man on the court.
Enough for now as the FP, with no cream, is finished.  No cream because Terry and I are experimenting with something new in our eating.  If we are successful I will share at a later date.  If we fail you will hear NOTHING!!!

Tuesday, November 7, 2017

Happy Birthday---3

Happy birthday to you Veronica.  Have a special day with Mommy, Daddy and family.  Lotz of love to you---Grandpa Lee and Terry

Sunday, November 5, 2017

Great job

Sam riding bike in France last December
One of Terry's grandsons, Sam, competed in and finished his first Ironman race yesterday.  That means he swam 2.2 miles, biked 112 miles and ran 26.2 miles!  A great accomplishment for a 21 year old who is also going to school full time and will finish up his degree this year.  Way to go Sam.
Well last week in tennis it was a repeat of week one.  Karl and I played court #1.  We won the first set in a tie breaker, lost the second set 4-6 and lost the match tie breaker.  A long fun match with disappointing results but really a great time.  I am beginning to think I need an infusion of Kona coffee like I had last year when Kim sent some!  This week I will play with a different player on court #1 so we will see.  This fall is a time to work on things (of course it is most fun to win) and see who can play with others in a good way.  The rubber hits the road for the winter season starting in January but of course it will be fun win or lose then too.
I can hardly believe it but I THINK I am finished with our Christmas Card.  I was totally disappointed in our card last year as I had it printed at Shutterfly and the work I put into it was terrible.  I decided to make one from scratch this year and it is pretty well finished.  Now to get it out before Christmas!!!
Life goes on here in Naples.  There is a constant sound of trucks hauling downed trees and then across the road is a dump site where they grind things up.  I am guessing the noise will go on and on for months.  Actually 100 million dollars later we may have peace.  I am not complaining as we had no damage on the house here so I am thankful.
We went out with friends yesterday to a pizza place called, The Crust.  I do not know if it is a chain but they make very very very good pizza.  It will be reheated pizza for lunch today, um.
I am having fun watching guys who were on my team last year play tennis.  There is something very satisfying to watch guys play knowing that if there had not been a 2.5 team last year these guys  would not be on the court.  My court #2 pairing for Wednesday, Rusty and Karl,  were out hitting the ball yesterday in 84 degree heat.  They want to get better.  That is so fun to see.
It does not seem real that we are into November already.  I really do not know where the time goes but it certainly goes by fast.  The days as well as the weeks, as well as the months and as well as the years.  I am 70, really!  I still can not get my mind around that fact.  As a young boy growing up on the farm if a neighbor was 70 they were really really old.  Don't know what that means for me today.  When I get up in the morning, if I think about it, I feel at least 70.  On the tennis court I don't feel it but I am guessing I play like it!  Whatever happens I am thankful for being here and being able to enjoy life.
Enough for now as my FP is saying that it is time to sip the last of it.

Wednesday, November 1, 2017

A dream come true---happy birthday Cynthia

Way back in 1977 Gail wanted a daughter so so much.  We talked to an adoption agency in Fargo to see if going that route could happen.  Things did not work out but then on this day in 1980 Gail's dream came true.  Cynthia came into the world in a hurry, so much that by the time I parked the car and hurried into the hospital she had arrived.  Gail had her little girl and she brought so much joy to Gail's life.  Now, thirty-seven years later, Cynthia has a family of her own and she knows how much little ones bring to life.  Three girls and three boys, along with a great husband make life full.  Happy birthday Cynthia, we love you.   Dad and Terry

Tuesday, October 31, 2017

Oh My




Two pink birds we saw as we took the boat shuttle

I can't believe it has been over two weeks since I blogged.  Maybe that means my life has been vanilla!
First tennis as that is one thing I spend some time on here in FL.  Last week was our first match of the fall.  We kind of look at fall as spring training for the winter.  This is my first season of tennis at the 3.0 level.  For the last 3 years my team competed at the 2.5 level and improved each year so it was time to take some players and move up a notch.  Last Wednesday we lost all three courts but I was actually not that disappointed.  Rusty and I played on court #1 and lost a match tie breaker.  We won more games than we lost and out played them in rallies but they took us down in their service game.  Our serves---something to work on for sure.  I was short 3 of my top 6 players so things will get better, maybe!  We play tomorrow at home so will see what happens.  I will still be short 2 of my top players that I will count on in the winter but this is a time for some players to get on the court as their court time will be less in the winter.  One good thing for me is I have not experienced any back issues so far and that is good!  I did take a 1/2 hour lesson last Friday and my homework was to hit the ball cross court for 30-40 minutes each week with a player who is much better than I.  I did that yesterday and it was good.
We had a RAINY day last Saturday.  It started late AM and I am guessing we had about 2 inches of rain.  We needed it.  It is interesting to see the tennis courts after a rain.  I would say it rained off and on from Saturday AM through early AM Sunday and still by Sunday noon you could have gotten on the clay courts.  They do soak up the water.
Terry and I took the boat shuttle once last week.  Over the last couple of years we have not used it that much.  It was raining lightly the day we took it so we did not stay on the beach but stayed on the pontoon and came back.  Saw a dolphin on the way out and many birds.  That 15 minutes ride is always relaxing and fun.
Our next door neighbor John came down a couple of weeks ago.  He had us over for dinner and we had him over here.  He seems to be doing OK but I know he misses his wife Diane who died last January.  He does have his home in Toronto for sale and has purchased another one which is about half the size.  The one for sale is on Lake Ontario which means that it is on the upper scale of homes. He said he will not move out until it sells but he is going back up there November 4th to get things settled in his new place so it will be ready when the other sells.  In some ways John reminds me of my brother Ronald.  ALWAYS doing something, always into an adventure, always busy with making things happen.  Of course I did not live close to Ronald after he left home for college but that has always been my perception of him.
I have a couple of things I want to accomplish this winter but I have not been able to get beyond this tennis thing and home life.  Not a bad thing but I had better get moving soon.
Terry's son and wife have finalized their plans for a visit this year.  They will leave MN the afternoon of Thanksgiving, stop in Peach Tree City and arrive here Saturday, November 25th.  They will leave the following Friday.  At this time we do not have any dates for others coming but we may get more family down here in the winter.
Enough for now as I just poured the last drop of FP into my favorite cup and will savory it for a bit.

Monday, October 16, 2017

Irma will be remembered for a long time

there once was a car port over these spaces

along the road

Common curb side view

Hoping there were no cars under it

The remains of a huge tree
These pictures are from around our neighborhood.  It seems that trucks are hauling away downed trees and junk almost 24/7.  Yesterday, Sunday, they were heard hauling at 7:00 AM.  I know that here in Naples there were no lives lost and Irma was predicted to be much worse than it was but still the scars will remain for years and years and of course the $$ are there as well.  Many lost their homes and all possessions.
Terry and I had a fun filled weekend.  We took in an open house kind of thing at the Alamo which is a  large gun place and shooting range.  They served hot dogs and brats with the trimmings.  In one gun display case they had about 6 rifles which dated back 500+ years.  One was totally made with inlayed ivory.  The guy said there was over 2 million $ worth of rifles in the case.  We sat and watched the gun range for a bit.  One boy, about 10 or so, was shooting for the first time.  He had this HUGE grin on his face yet each time a shot was fired he would flinch!
We drove 5 miles east of I75 to an open house at a new development.  They will have a large recreation building, outdoor courts and 610 units when finished.  They had 8 models on display, free Royal Scoop ice cream and hot dogs.  We were too full from the Alamo!  The units ranged in price from $300,000+ - $600,00+.  I found their marketing method a bit offensive.  We walked into a unit that was listed at $317,000.  Wow I thought, very nice with a spa and pool out back.  The sales person was talking to other people and mentioned that the pool and spa were a $170,000 up grade!!!  Of course that was not listed and you would not know that if you did not ask.  Many of the units had top loading washers and dryers in white and fridges as side by side.  Well we know that perhaps nobody is going to spend half a million dollars on a home and get those appliances so the name of the game, it appears, is get the people in and then convince them to add on many $$s in upgrades.  Anyway it was fun to see what was there and it certainly enforced the idea that SW Florida is growing and growing.  As for Terry and me we are very happy where we are.
Yesterday we picked up some friends and took in an open house at the Naples Zoo.  It was free for Collier county residents.  The normal cost for seniors is $21.95 which in my opinion is high so why not go on a day when it is free!
Time to sip the last of the FP and get on with the day.

Friday, October 13, 2017

The real deal but not the real deal!

This picture is not of our Jayhawk stacker but it is very much like what we had on the farm.  We had an M international and a Jayhawk with rubber tires like this.  It seems to me that ours was a bit taller but I am not sure.  I do know that we could make hay stacks much taller than anybody in the country. One can see the metal tips on the end of the wooden tines.  I have one in my wood shop that came off our Jayhawk.    According to my memory Dad never allowed anyone else to drive it.  Not sure why but then that was Dad.
There were times I wondered why we had a M with narrow front end wheels but as I think back I think we had to have a narrow front end to use the Jayhawk and the cornpicker.  The only bad thing about those narrow front tires was if you were in the middle of a dirt field and it started to rain you had better head out or the front tires would plug up with mud and skid along the ground.  All the better to quit early, right??
I had to buy a pumpkin yesterday.  Terry had a Dr. appt on Wednesday.  The building and office were very nice and I am thinking this is a first class place.  Then I go up to the front desk and there sits a tiny plastic pumpkin, what the heck!  So when Terry has a follow up on Monday the office will get this nice REAL pumpkin.  I am sure they will be thrilled!
My FP is on its last swallow so it is time to shave and get set for my Friday match.  Yesterday I lost my focus and tried to be too fancy with my shots.  This morning it will be "hit it over the net" and make them make a mistake.  We'll see what happens!

Audrey 9!

Today, October 13th Audrey turns 9.  She is such a cute, sweet and smart young lady.  Audrey we are so proud of you and love you so much.  Grandpa and Terry

Wednesday, October 11, 2017

Closing in on our first week

Six of these guys will move up to 3.0 tennis this fall--fun but perhaps humble pie too!
We have been here a full 5 days and MOST things are put away where they belong.  Maybe a first for me as I don't know if I ever got things put away in St. Paul last summer.
We are into our annual fall Dr. visits to make sure we look good, the plumbing is working and the mind is kind of OK!!!
I have been pleasantly surprised with my tennis play.  Not great but really doing fine since I found proof that I did not have cement in my shoes.  Still not moving as I should but that will come.  It is so easy to hit the ball and then stand there and wait to see what happens instead of hitting the ball and then moving to where you think it will come back.
As of now our first match will be 2 weeks from today.  As I looked at the teams they are all different from the 2.5 teams we played the last 3 years so that should be fun.  It is always fun to travel to new clubs and meet new players.
Our weather has been a bit hot and a BIG bit humid.  Yesterday a record was set with a temp of 93.  As one could guess the temp here does not fluctuate as much as in MN.  It seldom gets below 70 for a high for the day and seldom get higher than low 90s for a high for the day.  This time of year the normal is 85-87 but the humidity has been near 100%.  When we play tennis at 9:00 one is soaked in a sweat by the time the first point is won.  With a starting time of 7:30 you may not be soaked until the 3rd or 4th point!
My goodness this weight of mine is not so easy to lose now compared to a few years ago.  It still can come off but the effort is much more.  I have a goal for the month of October so I will see how I do.  I have to learn to eat when I am hungry, not just eat because it tastes so good!  Perhaps it is called discipline which way too often escapes me!  I have been arriving at the courts a good 30 minutes ahead of a match and spending that time in the fitness center.  I am trying to warm up before I play to cut down on the chances of an injury.  Many guys get out of their car with racquet in hand and step onto the court.  Not a good idea at our age.
Enough for now as the FP is almost too cool to enjoy.